Invisible Spanish501 essential idioms, explained

Ponerse en su piel

/po·ˈneɾ·se en su pjel/

To put oneself in someone's skin.

Frequency
ConversationCommon
JournalismCommon
LiteraryOccasional
AcademicRare
In English

to put oneself in someone's shoes; **to put oneself in someone's shoes**; **to walk in someone's shoes**; **to see things from someone's point of view**; **to empathise with someone**; **to imagine being in someone's situation**

Meaning

Ponerse en la piel de alguien means to empathise with someone, imagine what they are going through or see things from their point of view.

Examples

Ponte en su piel.

Put yourself in his shoes.

Hay que ponerse en la piel de los demás.

We should try to put ourselves in other people's shoes.

Intenté ponerme en su piel antes de responder.

I tried to see things from her point of view before replying.

Si te pusieras en mi piel, lo entenderías.

If you were in my shoes, you'd understand.

It emphasises emotional understanding rather than simple agreement.

Used when
  • tries to understand another person's feelings
  • encourages empathy
  • judges a difficult situation fairly
  • considers another person's perspective
  • asks others not to judge too quickly
Origin

The expression is based on the ancient metaphor that true understanding comes from imagining oneself inside another person's body.

While English traditionally speaks of someone's shoes, Spanish chooses someone's skin, creating a more intimate image of sharing another person's experience.

The metaphor has become firmly established in modern Spanish.

Cultural note

Although ponerse en los zapatos de alguien is occasionally heard under English influence, native Spanish overwhelmingly prefers:

Ponerse en la piel de alguien.

The expression is widely used by teachers, psychologists, journalists and parents to encourage empathy.

Did you know?

Many languages use body-related metaphors to express empathy.

English says:

  • Put yourself in someone's shoes.

Spanish says:

  • Ponerse en la piel de alguien.

Both describe the same psychological process of imagining another person's experience, but Spanish chooses the much more intimate image of sharing someone's skin rather than simply wearing their shoes.

For English speakers

Do not translate the expression literally.

English speakers would never normally say:

Put yourself in his skin.

Instead, use expressions such as:

  • Put yourself in his shoes.
  • Walk in her shoes.
  • See things from his point of view.
  • Empathise with her.

The meaning is virtually identical despite the different metaphor.

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