Invisible Spanish501 essential idioms, explained

Cara de pocos amigos

/ˈka·ɾa ðe ˈpo·kos a·ˈmi·ɣos/

A face with few friends.

Frequency
ConversationVery common
JournalismCommon
LiteraryOccasional
AcademicRare
In English

to look unfriendly; **to look unfriendly**; **to look grumpy**; **to look intimidating**; **to have a forbidding expression**; **to look like they don't want to be bothered**; **to have a face like thunder** (British)

Meaning

Tener cara de pocos amigos means to look unfriendly, to have a forbidding expression, to look grumpy or intimidating, or to look as though one doesn't want to be bothered.

Examples

Ese hombre tiene cara de pocos amigos.

That man looks pretty unfriendly.

El camarero tenía cara de pocos amigos.

The waiter looked really grumpy.

No te acerques ahora: tiene una cara de pocos amigos...

Don't go over to him now—he looks like he doesn't want to be bothered.

El portero tenía cara de pocos amigos.

The doorman looked quite intimidating.

It refers primarily to someone's appearance or facial expression, not necessarily to their actual personality.

Used when
  • looks angry or annoyed
  • has a serious or unfriendly expression
  • appears intimidating
  • seems unapproachable
  • gives the impression that they do not want to talk
Origin

The expression is based on a humorous literal interpretation.

If someone's face suggests that they have "few friends", it must be because their appearance is not particularly welcoming.

The expression therefore turns a person's facial expression into an imaginary measure of their popularity.

There is no specific historical event behind the idiom.

Cultural note

An important feature of the expression is that it describes appearance, not necessarily character.

For example:

El médico tiene cara de pocos amigos, pero es encantador.

means:

The doctor looks unfriendly, but he's actually lovely.

Someone can therefore tener cara de pocos amigos while being perfectly pleasant.

Did you know?

Spanish has several expressions that use the face as a window onto someone's mood:

  • Tener cara de pocos amigos → to look unfriendly.
  • Tener buena cara → to look well / cheerful.
  • Poner mala cara → to look displeased.
  • Tener cara de perro → to look angry or hostile.
  • Ser todo caras → to be expressive (less common).

The particularly humorous idea behind cara de pocos amigos is that the face itself seems to explain why the person might not have many friends. ```

For English speakers

Do not translate:

Tiene cara de pocos amigos.

as:

He has a face of few friends.

Instead:

He looks unfriendly.

He's got a pretty forbidding expression.

He looks like he doesn't want to be bothered.

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